There was this guy who loved two gals at the same time but he didn’t know which one he loved more.
Someone taught him. Ask yourself this question and answer it honestly:
“When you are happy, which gal would you want to share your happiness with?”
The one you think of is someone you love.

Ask yourself another question and answer it honestly:
“When you are sad, which gal you want to share your burden with?”
The one you think of is also someone you love.

If you think of the same gal when you are happy & sad, that’s the most perfect.
But if you don’t think of the same gal, I would advise you to choose the one you are willing to share your sadness with.
In life, there are more sorrows than happiness. There are too many people with whom you can share your happiness with, not necessarily your lover.

If you live your life happily, you can also enjoy it alone. In sadness, however, there are not many people willing to share your burden with you.
If you are willing to tell someone your happiness, I am sure that person has got to be someone close & an understanding person to you.

But it shouldn’t stop there.
If that person only thinks of you when she is happy, but looks for someone else when she is sad, this lover is too
unstable, she doesn’t treat you as someone she can spend the rest of her life with.

Of course, I will be very happy if I am the first person to share her happiness.
But, if she is sad, I will be too willing to stay by her side & ease her pain.
Only then, will I believe that I hold a very important position in her heart.

If you are sad, who comes to your mind first?

Friendship is a strange thing.
We find ourselves telling each other the deepest details of our lives … things we don’t even share with the families who raised us.
But what is a friend?
A confidant?
A shoulder to cry on?
An ear to listen?
A heart to feel?
A friend is all these … and more.
No matter where we met, no matter how long we’ve been together …
I call you friend.
A word so small,
yet so large in feeling,
a word filled with emotion,
a word overflowing with love.
Truly great things come in small packages.
Once the package of friendship has been opened,
it can never be closed.
It is a constant book always waiting…
waiting to be read…and enjoyed.
We may have our disagreements …
we may have our appointments. …
We may argue …
we may have concern for one another…
friendship is a unique bond that lasts through all tribulations.
A part of each of us goes into our friendships …
our humor …
our experiences …
our tears.

Who comes first to your mind?


4 responses »

  1. Awww.. this really in true. I have many friends whom I share my hapiness with but only a person who I think of when I’m sad.

  2. I don’t know why, but this made me cry…

    I think I’d say thank you. This has been of help.

  3. என்ன தமிழ் தெரியுமா? தெரியவில்லை என்றாலும் நான் அதில்தான் எழுதுவேன்! அட தமிழை வளர்கிறேன் நம்புங்கள்! ஆங்கிலம் அழிந்துவிடக்கூடாது என்பதும் ஒரு காரணம்….ஹ்ஹ..ஹா…ஹா…ஹாஅ! நட்பை பற்றி எப்படி எழுதியிருக்கிறீர்கள்! சும்மா இதயத்தை தொட்டுவிட்டது என்றுதான் சொல்லனும்! அசத்தலாக இருக்கிறது! அசந்தும் போய்விட்டேன் ஆடியும் போய்விட்டேன்! இது போன்ற நண்பர்கள் நம் வாழ்க்கையில் கிடைத்துவிட்டால் நமது வாழ்க்கைய் பூமியிலேயே சொர்கம்தான்! இதுவரை அப்படி அடியேனுன்கு அமைந்ததாக தெரியவில்லை! எதிர்காலத்தில்….எப்படின்னு பார்போம். வாழ்த்துக்கள்! வணக்கம்!

  4. realfantasy23: yape that one person is very special coz he or she is carrying half of our burden for us..

    sia: m happy that this helped u in any shows that the time i took to copy and paste it is worth it after all..:) and gal cheer up…

    Priyamudan: I am a Tamil. I can write Tamil but by the time I type in Tamil, I will be old. But its always nice to see and hear tamil. Kathukul thaen payuthu.. And I did not write this post. I got it as a forward.. It takes time to find the rite person..don look too day you will get the person.. 🙂

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